(1) Keep Your Distance -

Remember that smothering him probably sent him or her over the edge. What you need to do is leave him or her be for a time. It may seem odd in saying that but you want him or her to miss you and try to live their life without you. They may find that what they thought would be a better life is nothing without you in it. It’s the whole reverse psychology thinking.

(2) Don’t Use Drugs, Don’t Use Alcohol -

The last thing you should do is turn to negative uppers and downers. This means alcohol and drugs. If your goal is get back together with your ex, using drugs and alcohol will not help you to achieve this goal. In fact, you may find yourself doing things you never thought you would. This means calling him or her out of sheer desperation and drunkenness. Doing just this shows them that they are better off without you. (It could also lead them to change their number.)

Your best choice when dealing with a breakup is to find a positive outlet that helps you out mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. One way you can do this is to start an exercise program. Your ultimate goal is not to harm yourself in any way. Sadness can make a person do just about anything.

(3) Stop Conversing With Them -

Don’t repeatedly call them. This shows that you are in completely desperation and will send them running to hide from you including changing their phone numbers and e-mail address. Don’t become this desperate, clingy fool. Instead, give him or her space. Let them come around to your non-neediness.

(4) Above All Else, Make a Plan to Get Your Ex Back -

Make a plan of attack to get back together with your ex. The lack of a plan keeps from second try relationships from working. One of the easiest things people tend to ignore is their instincts. If you listen to your instincts when it comes to problem, it becomes much easier to solve. If you or your ex is the emotional type, it can be problematic to handle without a plan.

By remembering these 4 not to do things after a break up, you can have a chance to get back together with your ex. All it takes is some patience and time.

Author: Teecee Go

The fact is each problem must have the method of resolving this problem moreover if the problem that was dealt with by us we the fox became an opportunity.

Definitely this could be done by everyone but this depended on the person that was in the problem. my intention if the type of the person was the person who found it easy to surrender then permasalah can be not completed and only had destruction in his life.

In my article this time I will give you a solution to change the problem into an opportunity.

First
 you must think positif
faced the problem better with the spirit that calm. Patience was the main key whereas the patience was located in the spirit that calm. then if you in the problem better you were calm and patient afterwards you must be thoughtful positif

second
Smile
if you or we have gotten positive thoughts available in the calm spirit and the patient heart then smiling. the smile for everyone that you know. like whatever you could get a spirit urging if you showed the face that was not friendly or the shabby face. Did don’t regard trivial one smile. the smile and laughed was medicine stress that could return your calm spirit.

THIRD
said the happy thing
most people when they were in the problem precisely told the available concern in their marrow. in fact this was an wrong action. if you too many told the available concern in your marrow on the problem that was dealt with by you better you no longer need to change the problem into an opportunity and you will become the looser. If this happened you will precisely get the loss and could be you lost your partner because you had a pessimistic attitude.

fourth
avoided negative statment  
If you were in a meeting that discussed the available problem in your company avoided negative words that hurt the other person or condemned the problem because you could not control yourself when you in this situation.

So four steps that I had to change the problem into an opportunity. It is hoped was useful in your life.

By: Thecontemplation

Opposite the person who was loved by you, the winter changed to the beautiful spring

If you saw the person who was loved by you, your heart will pound tight

Opposite the person who was liked by you, you only felt happy and happy

Opposite the person who was loved by you, said words that went out came from the feeling that deeply

Opposite the person who was liked by you, said words only left thoughts

If the person who was loved by you cried, you will also take part in crying beside him

If the person who was liked by you cried, you only entertained

The feeling of the love was begun from the eyes, whereas
the feeling liked to be begun from ear, So if you wanted to stop liking someone, was enough by closing ears.
But if you tried to close his your eyes, the person who was loved by you, the love changed into the drop of the tear and continued remained in you heart the distance of time that for quite a long time.

“but apart from the feeling liked and the feeling love… being
the deeper feeling.
That is the feeling affection…. the feeling that not disappear
was as fast as the feeling of the love.
The feeling that was not easy to change.
The feeling that could make you sacrificing for the person who was loved by you.
Wanted suffered for the sake of the person’s happiness that was loved by you.
The love want to had.
But unfortunately only
saw the person who was loved by him happy..
Although must lose.
Have you realised him?
Belive or the note believe.. its all yours

Written by: Adji 

What is the brain exercise that can increase your intuitive power? The answer is: Drawing!

How can drawing increase your psychic intuition? First, let’s understand this from the point of how drawing functions as a brain exercise.

Drawing is a whole skill that makes up of a group of component skills, namely, the skills of perception of:

1. Edges.
2. Spaces
3. Relationships
4. Lights and shadows
5. Whole, or gestalt

These perceptual skills become integrated into a whole skill that determines your ability to draw. Once you learn the principles of these skills, you can learn to draw relatively quickly.

In the process of learning to draw, your brain goes through a complex chain of brain exercise to learn how to control the way it handles information. The benefit of learning to draw is to link to other activities and the possibility of seeing things differently by tapping into your right-brain.

Understanding How Left-Brain and Right-Brain Work

Now, let’s go a step further to explain what is right-brain and left-brain.

The right-brain relies on nonverbal cues to process perceptions. It’s good at tasks that require the ability to see similarities, to make connections, to understand how parts fit together as a whole, and to perceive overall patterns instantaneously. It is capable of drawing insights that come from non-linear, multi-dimensional mode of brain exercise.

On the other hand, the left side of the brain excels at verbal, analytical, rational and logical tasks. It’s the dominant buddy of the right-brain, taking over most of the brain’s normal activities, especially when you are at serious work. It is the master of planning and systematic works. It has a penchant for using words to describe and define, figuring things out step by step, drawing conclusions based on facts and logic, and thinking in a linear way.

Despite being a linear thinker that has limited scope of thinking, the left-brain takes over most of our daily tasks. Only in situations when it finds a particular job undesirable, or if a certain task takes too much time, is too detailed or slow or simply too difficult, then the left side gives up.

If you want the right-brain, which is more creative and intuitive, to be involved more in your thinking process, you must create chances for it to participate. The trick is to present tasks in a way that discourage the left-brain, and hence create opportunities for the right-brain to demonstrate its capability.

When you engage in drawing, you create the chance for the right-brain to gain dominance. If you do it regular as a hobby, drawing is a powerful brain exercise that can increases your psychic intuition.

More Advance Way To Develop Your Psychic Intuition

One technique designed by Dr. Betty Edwards to develop subconscious intuitive power through drawing, is to draw with your non-dominant hand looking at images that are upside down.

The rationale is: This puts the left brain in a state of confusion so that it can’t easily decipher shapes, lost its top-bottom orientation, unable to attach labels and categorize them to match stored memories. This process creates an opportunity to integrate your right-brain and allows it to become dominant. When presented with a confusing image, the left-brain gives up and the right-brain takes over.

You have probably heard of the saying that the best way to deal with a challenging issue is to sleep on it.

This problem-solving tactics is based on the same argument discussed above. After a long hard day cracking at the problem without success, the left-brain is exhausted. This is the perfect chance for the intuitive and creative right-brain to flex its muscle. It will sneak into the thinking space and come up with solutions that seem to have come from "The Higher Mind".

By understanding how your brain works, you can maximize its psychic intuition capability with regular practice of this powerful brain exercise.

Author: Jordan Cheng 

When we were angry to make blood pressure travel by and speed up our heartbeat. Rational will be lost and the decision that we took at the time of angry to tend to make many losses to ourselves even the person lain. at first in the household relations.

The great person was the person who could maintain his anger and could control him when in the situation that genting. when and how we must be angry also when and how we must control our anger.

Jimmy Teo in his article recommended the precaution as below

1. When you were trapped or be forced in was in the situation like that, fast went. Outside and prayed. Ask for relief to the God
2. Ask for advice to the person that you believed and the profesional adviser.
3. Try played with a game or played the music instrument. that will loosen stress
4. Bathe cleanly. cleansed your body of all the wastes.
5. If necessary gave the decision quickly, do not take the decision at the time of that same time. sparing time to cool down the feeling.
6. Go to the old people’s home or The orphan house to help. did the rough work. Visit the emergency room from the near hospital. you will realise really lucky. you will want to live. you will stay happy because you were still continuing to live and healthy, whereas the other person was waiting for the death or the operation that will strike their body